f. Does your partner ever accuse you of not acting how you should or caring for their needs? The test is designed to ask you questions about your partners implicit or explicit feeling and actions in a ‘does your partner...’ fashion. However, you could just as well respond as if to assess your own actions and feelings. While it also may be difficult to gauge many implicit feelings of your partner it may be better to practice transparency and honesty between you and engage in using this measure with them so they can give their honest input to a joint discussion. Likewise, while you may feel you convey a certain standard in your own explicit actions to your partner they may have a different interpretation and feel differently about yourself. A constructive discussion involving active listening and forward thinking is always encouraged in nurturing a healthy relationship between two people. The questions will ask you questions like ‘Does your partner do things just to make you happy?’ to which you will be asked to give a response on a simple scale ranging from 1 (strongly disagree ) to 4 (strongly agree). There are 30 of these questions in total.