Others have quite a bit of each one in them, but they lead and communicate in one primary Gem most of the time.” Once you understand your GEM type, you can learn to spot other GEMS™ quickly. Walk through these various scenarios and answer the questions honestly. Remember, the only right answer is an honest answer! Not all of these scenarios will apply to you perfectly, because we are all different. So just place a check mark next to the answer that is most appropriate or you feel best describes you.